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  • Book Review: Green – Ted Dekker

    Ted Dekker - GreenTed Dekker both starts and finishes what he set into motion with Black. In a world where the spiritual is physical Thomas Hunter must keep the Circle from breaking apart as the world careens towards the final showdown between good and evil, between Elyon and Teelah.

    I was extremely excited to begin reading Green because I loved Black, Red, & White. I don’t know if it was because I held unrealistic expectations or if the book wasn’t as good as the previous books but I was disappointed when I finished Green. My disappointment was mainly due to the way Dekker closed the loop, I felt he could have done it in

    a way that was more satisfying. I will say that Dekker’s grasp of the Biblical narrative is amazing, what really threw me though was his shifting back and forth between Biblical allegory and more direct Biblical example. Throughout the series he has had definite Biblical allegory, but in Green he throws in some scenes where they really aren’t allegory, I basically knew how the scene was going to end even as it started. He even names one character Ba’al which immediately paints the character in a certain light for most readers. It was also disappointing that with the current vampire infatuation in our culture that Dekker decided to go there.

    Note: In the material that I have read for Green the book is grouped with Black, Red, & White and left at that. There are parts in Green that refer to the Lost Books Series (Chosen, Infidel, Renegade, Chaos, Lunatic, & Elyon) as well as the Paradise Novels (Saint, Sinner, & Showdown). As I was reading Green, I wished that I hadn’t stopped reading the Lost Books at Chaos because there is are parts within Green that I am assuming a reader who has read the Lost Books and Paradise novels would understand the backstory a little better.

    I’m willing to give Dekker the benefit of the doubt though and give Green a 3 out of 5 rating.

    Related Reading:

    • Black, Red, & White
    • Chosen, Infidel, Renegade, Chaos, Lunatic, & Elyon
    • Saint, Sinner, & Showdown

    Note: due to a quirk in WordPress I am unable to hyperlink all of the books referenced in this post…I sincerely apologize.

  • Carrie Anne & Company Photo Blitz

    I am not a man of many words, plus pictures are worth 1,000, so here you go…remember the images are full size when you click on them so you may have to scroll to the bottom right to see the close button.

    Baby GiftsBro, gift, & sisbig brothersis, bro, & mommyin Carrie's roomgood big broon the way outtakin care of sisin her new bed

  • Caleb & Carrie

    I am too tired to post more pics (I’ve fallen asleep with her in my arms twice today), they will come tomorrow, but for now, check out big brother Caleb and his new little sister.

    I’m posting from my phone so please forgive any typos and the short post.

  • Carrie Anne Miles is here!

    Carrie Anne Miles was born at 12:10 am on 10/2/2009.  She weighed 6 pounds 3 ounces and was 19 inches long.  Mommy and baby are doing great!

    Be warned, the pictures are full size once you click on them so you will have to scroll around to find the close button in the bottom right corner of the popup.

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  • Movie Review: Love Happens – Aaron Eckhart, Jennifer Aniston, Judy Greer & Dan Fogler

    love-happens_poster-337x500In Love Happens Burke (Aaron Eckhart) has made lemonade out of lemons by writing a book about how to cope with losing a loved one after his wife dies in a car accident.  The movie picks up roughly 3 years after the loss of his wife.  He is on a seminar tour that brings him back to his old home town of Seattle, Washington (a place where he does not want to be I might add) where he meets Eloise (Jennifer Aniston) a flower shop owner who leaves random large words behind the hotel art that brushes him off by pretending to be deaf.  Throughout the course of the movie Eloise forces Burke to come to grips with his lemons and a romance blooms.

    I really liked this movie.  Aaron Eckhart & Jennifer Aniston had really good on screen chemistry and the storyline was put together very well.  There were points in the movie that I thought conversation would have gone quite different in real life, but the raw emotion displayed by Eckhart is refreshingly good.  I was also pleasantly surprised that for a romance there was no skin shown.  Dan Fogler provides a great supporting role as Burke’s agent (Lane) and makes things light when necessary but you can tell from the way Burke and Lane interact that they have a lot of history and Lane really is looking out for Burke and wants the best for him as evidenced by a last minute meeting before the executive meeting that he has been trying to setup for Burke.  Judy Greer brings a solid performance in her usual role as second chair.  In Love Happens I would like to see Judy Greer in a leading role, she is funny enough and a solid enough actress that I think she would be able to pull off a leading role.  Time will tell though, if she does though, you heard it here first.  Finally, Martin Sheen plays the ex-Marine father of Burke’s deceased wife and he knocks it out of the park.  I don’t want to give too much story away otherwise I would tell you how, I can say that there is a reason he has been in the business as long as he has.

    Grade: B+

    Notable Movies for each actor/actress: (I’m going to try listing movies I think are worth seeing, please let me know if you find it useful)

    Aaron Eckhart:

    Jennifer Aniston:

    Dan Fogler:

    Judy Greer:

    Martin Sheen (as of this writing he has 218 movies and tv appearances on imdb.com but I haven’t seen a lot of the movies, I have mostly seen him on TV):

    • The American President
    • Spawn – kind of a dark movie, but a comic book movie nonetheless, not sure I should recommend it because they only list the unrated director’s cut which I can only imagine is very dark.

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  • Movie Review: Julie & Julia – Meryl Streep, Amy Adams, Stanley Tucci, & Chris Messina

    julie_and_julia_ver2_xlgDo you like to cook?  So do Julie Powell (Amy Adams) and Julia Child (Meryl Streep).  Julie & Julia is “based on two true stories” and follows the lives of two women who as Julia Child “love to eat”.  In parallel it follows the lives of Julia Child who is forced to find something to do while her diplomat husband is posted in Paris and Julie Powell who is a cubicle dwelling phone operator in New York who by day answers phone calls in the aftermath of 9/11 that feels her life is going nowhere and she needs to do something to add meaning.  As part of following the two women and their adventures the movie chronicles the lives shared with their husbands and really shows a parallel between the husbands as well played by Stanley Tucci & Chris Messina.

    There are several laugh out loud moments in this movie which was exactly what my wife and I needed as we watched it.  One of the best things about the movie for me was the interaction with the husbands and how they were just great guys.  In this movie they also explore the inevitable “make it or break it point” that comes with doing anything of value and how anything worth doing is worth pushing through that point and persevering.

    Grade: B+

    Notable Movies: (I’m going to try listing movies I think are worth seeing, please let me know if you find it useful)

    Meryl Streep:

    Amy Adams:

    Stanley Tucci:

    Chris Messina:

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  • Book Review: What difference do it make? – Ron Hall, Denver Moore, & Lynn Vincent

    What difference do it make?What difference do it make? is a conversation that tells of the relationship between a well to do man with a rough family history and a homeless wise man and how a book has changed their life. It is a conversation about hope, restoration, and how one person’s decision can change the course of history. It tells of how two men from completely different walks of life can have their lives irrevocably intertwined for a cause definitely worth fighting for. Interspersed within the story of Ron and Denver are stories of hope about people who have been affected by the first book Same Kind of Different as Me.

    I wish I would have read Same Kind of Different as Me, because I feel like I am catching the game in the second half of the championship game after a blockbuster of a first half. Conversation is swirling around me about events that I don’t have access to but wish that I did. Don’t get me wrong, I loved the book and think that Denver Moore is probably one of the wisest men I have ever read while at the same time having a refreshingly simple outlook on what the Bible actually says. I love how he relays his understanding of the Bible and how we are supposed to live according to it without pulling any punches. He is not afraid to tell it like it is and I love it.

    Grade: B+

    Related Reading:

  • Book Review: The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss

    The 4-Hour WorkweekThe 4-Hour Workweek blew the top off the charts because everyone wanted to know how to get the most out of their day.  In this book Timothy Ferriss explains how he went from hopping from unsatisfying job to unsatisfying job to unsatisfying business ownership then into his first mini-retirement.  He then goes on to explain how you can outsource your life to live the life you have always dreamed of living.

    If I would have started this book at chapter 1 I probably would have liked it.  The problem is that through the introductory material you get to know the author and I didn’t like him very much.  Actually that is probably not fair, I don’t agree with his outlook on life.  I came to this book because I saw all the 4-Hour workweek email signatures on other business owner’s emails and thought they might be on to something in terms of increasing productivity.  The author has a very selfish goal when it comes to his life, it is all about me, me, me (I will give him credit he does mention that you should help other people in one of the last chapters of the book, but the methods he uses to get to the point where you can help people kind of defeat the purpose in my mind.)  Aside from our different outlooks on life he does give some good suggestions on how to manage your time more effectively and I have taken to heart some of them such as periodically asking myself throughout the day if I am being productive or just active.  Asking myself that question 3 times a  day has definitely helped increase productivity.  My outlook is that if you propose a solution to a problem it should at least benefit as many people as it possibly can, but Timothy’s methods are not scalable, someone has to do the work and in my opinion the author’s viewpoint is to use as many people as possible to make your life easier.  If everyone tried to use the methods in this book, no one would be able to use the methods in this book because someone has to do the work.
    Grade: D (I did find some redeeming things to implement otherwise it would have gotten an F)

    If I would have started this book at chapter 1 I probably would have liked it.  The problem is that through the introductory material you get to know the author and I didn’t like him very much.  Actually that is probably not fair, I don’t agree with his outlook on life.  I came to this book because I saw all the 4-Hour workweek (p.93) email signatures on other business owner’s emails and thought they might be on to something in terms of increasing productivity.  The author has a very selfish goal when it comes to his life, it is all about me, me, me (I will give him credit he does mention that you should help other people in one of the last chapters of the book, but the methods he uses to get to the point where you can help people kind of defeat the purpose in my mind.)  Aside from our different outlooks on life he does give some good suggestions on how to manage your time more effectively and I have taken to heart some of them such as periodically asking myself throughout the day if I am being productive or just active.  Asking myself that question 3 times a  day has definitely helped increase productivity.  My outlook is that if you propose a solution to a problem it should at least benefit as many people as it possibly can, but Timothy’s methods are not scalable, someone has to do the work and in my opinion the author’s viewpoint is to use as many people as possible to make your life easier.  If everyone tried to use the methods in this book, no one would be able to use the methods in this book because someone has to do the work.

    Grade: D (I did find some redeeming things to implement otherwise it would have gotten an F).

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  • Did it have to be?

    I read an article today on facebook while I was browsing through status updates that the government is thinking that the recession is finally over.  They gave the concession that life is still going to be hard for people affected by the recession.

    I also read different blog posts postulating what it would have been like on 9/11/2001 if we would have had twitter, facebook, and all the other social media that we have today…and in the light of what happened with the recent recession, the thought scares me…

    My status update on my facebook profile caused a discussion where I felt like I might have offended some people and that was not my intent, I didn’t express my opinion very well so this post is an attempt to clarify what I meant.  Carin, I’m sorry if I in any way made you feel like the recession is over for everyone and that people are not still being affected by what happened in our economy.

    Did our country just go through the largest recession since the 1930’s?  We did, some would argue that, but that is not my point with this post.  My point is asking the question, did it have to be this way?  My answer is no, but with the combination of the national news networks and social media proliferation a situation that could have been turned around was blown way out of proportion and people started reacting out of fear which is never a good thing.

    Let me make a confession, I haven’t watched CNN, Fox, MSNBC, or any other national news station since January.  Before the election last year I did watch the news because I wanted to stay informed about the candidates and have as much knowledge about who was running so that I could do my civic (and biblical I might add) duty and in the most informed way that I could possible.  In my mind there really wasn’t a good candidate, both of the major party candidates had some things right, but also had some pretty major things wrong, but I voted the best way I could.  Anyway, back on track.  After the election, I shut off the news because I was sick of hearing about the economy.  I turned the TV on for about half an hour while I was working one day in January and shut it off after about 30 minutes because I still didn’t want to be hearing about the economy, the national news networks were feeding the fear.

    Let’s look at the national news networks for a second, what are they in business for?  Take a second to think about it…

    They are a business, which means they are in business to make money, regardless of what your product is (in their case it is reporting the news) a person goes into business to make money.  They sit around tables planning how they are going to make money and what will make them money.  If this wasn’t the case, then the news networks would be non-profit organizations.  How does a news network keep people watching their news network?  They make people afraid.  That’s it.

    My mother in law gets my wife a Reader’s Digest subscription every year for Christmas and the issue covers just make me laugh.  If you are a RD subscriber, participate in an exercise with me…grab your stack of RD magazines…now ask yourself the question, what sells magazines?  Look at your RD covers…

    8/1/2009 – Brad Paisley “I’d like to beat up the guy who says…”, The best way to avoid scams… (playing on fear)
    7/1/2009 – 50 Secrets your Dentist Won’t Tell You (playing on fear)
    5/1/2009 – not too bad, but there is the cancer risk you can switch off…(playing on fear)
    4/1/2009 – the shocking truth about cancer tests (playing on fear)
    2/1/2009 – keep more of your cash! 29 tips to put YOU back in control (playing on fear)
    1/1/2009 – Beat the Cheaters! 9 new scams to avoid. (playing on fear)
    12/1/2008 – another not too bad one…maybe they took a break from the fear for the holidays.
    11/1/2008 – election issue, health care related…another fearful subject for a lot of people (playing on fear)
    10/1/2008 – 13 things your pharmacist won’t tell you (playing on fear)
    9/1/2008 – Election ’08 Who’s best for our future, on the bottom 13 things your computer guy won’t tell you…(playing on fear)
    8/1/2008 – TEEN DRIVERS AT RISK, Smart Fixes That Save Lives (playing on fear)
    7/1/2008 – 41 (WOW) Things Doctors Never Tell You (playing on fear)

    Hmm…fluffy the happy dog didn’t make any of the covers…

    The point is, news networks make their money by scaring people…that’s what keeps people watching…I remember back in October, Ali Velshi on CNN was backpedaling because people were starting to freak out about the economy.  He was telling people to stop freaking out, the problem is he was talking out of both sides of his mouth.  On one hand he was talking about the financial collapse, preaching doom and gloom…by the time he told people to stop freaking out, it was too late, the snowball was already rolling.

    My theory is that if people would have shot their TVs and stopped littering (I mean twittering) their fear, things wouldn’t have gotten nearly as bad as they did.  Dave Ramsey said on his Fox Business show (I don’t know where he got his numbers) that only 4% of the US was affected by the housing “collapse” and it was primarily in areas that were already too inflated to begin with.  He went on to say that 68% of the US population thought they were on the verge of losing everything.  A 64% gap between reality and perception…where in the world did this gap come from…any guesses?  You got it, the national news networks (and everyone facebook and twittering their fear to all the people around them).  So now we have 64% of the American population making decisions based on fear, which is never a good thing…Other companies just used the recession as an excuse to trim things they should have trimmed a long time ago.  But the end result was panic in the American population because a majority of the population was thinking they were going to lose everything and twittering and facebooking it to everyone they knew causing even more panic.

    So now we are dealing with recovering from a recession where too many people lost their jobs because of fear.  America will do it, we always do.  I just hope we learned our lesson.  We’ll see.

    My answer to the question what would it have been like on 9/11/2001 (and following) without belittling how bad it was is that it would have been hell on Earth.  The fear would have been overpowering.  To use a social marketing term, like it did during this recession, fear would have gone viral, but the degree to which it would have gone viral is horrifying…you thought this recession was bad…

  • Thoughts on the Recession from a Business Owner…

    Let me make a confession, I haven’t watched CNN, Fox, MSNBC, or any other national news station since January. Before the election last year I did watch the news because I wanted to stay informed about the candidates and have as much knowledge about who was running so that I could do my civic (and biblical I might add) duty and in the most informed way that I could possible. In my mind there really wasn’t a good candidate, both of the major party candidates had some things right, but also had some pretty major things wrong, but I voted the best way I could. Anyway, back on track. After the election, I shut off the news because I was sick of hearing about the economy. I turned the TV on for about half an hour while I was working one day in January and shut it off after about 30 minutes because I still didn’t want to be hearing about the economy, the national news networks were feeding the fear.

    I heard today that the government is saying that the recession is over…that’s good to know…it will be a long recovery but America will do it.

    I don’t know when the official start of the recession was, but I started my business right before the recession hit, so I have weathered the recession. If you want to see my thoughts on the recession and how I wonder if it needed to be as bad as it was, head on over to my personal blog.  In this post, I am going to discuss lessons I learned while weathering the recession.

    1. Never make decisions out of fear. This one seems like common sense, but a lot of Americans made decisions based on fear that they felt and now we are hurting a lot more as a country than if we would have kept level heads and just ridden out the storm.
    2. Trim the fat. I know I just said not to make decisions based on fear, but to keep a level head and this is a continuation on that.  Take a serious look at what you are doing and make sure you aren’t doing anything you don’t need to be doing.  I was in serious money making mode because every dollar counted and that is part of the reason my blogging dwindled for so long.  Also, as I mentioned in a previous post, I found things like a library card where I could have free access to a wealth of great information and inspiration invaluable.
    3. Automate/Batch as much as possible. This is similar to the item above, but just slightly different.  I have a forthcoming book review on The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich one of the ideas that I like in his book is the idea of automation.  While I don’t feel like people should take things to the extremes that he takes them.  Automation is a good thing.  Don’t do things you don’t need to be doing and make things as efficient as possible.
    4. You don’t have to take every job that comes your way. I made this mistake early and took a job with a client that I never should have taken.  There is still an outstanding invoice for $169.00 that I am chalking up to learning experience (I should frame the invoice).  Because I was just starting out my business, I took a job without thoroughly investigating the situation and walked into a complete mess.  Do your research and screen your clients.
    5. Treat your customer like you would treat your grandmother and everything will be great. I don’t know anyone who would treat their grandmother poorly.  Most people would actually go above and beyond for their grandma, you just do that for your grandma.  Michael Hyatt (CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers) wrote a great blog post on this title The Total Customer Experience that really gets at what I am trying to say here.  Check it out.
    6. Stick to your guns, only the strong survive. You went out on your own for a reason.  Stick with it.  Don’t cave in.  If you can weather this recession, you can weather anything.  Keep going.  Sometimes it just sucks and that’s OK, you aren’ t working for today are you?  I know I’m not.  I’m putting in my time now so I can take it easy later.

    I learned a lot more than this during the recession, like how I have an amazing wife and family that has stuck with me through some really tough times and for that I am forever grateful.  I also learned that I have some great friends and colleagues who have helped me along the way.  I also have some great customers and I hope we can continue to help each other make our businesses the best they can be.

    Now it is time for your thoughts.  What have you learned during this recession?